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This blog spot is primarily a photo/memory album for our family. It also serves as a way for us to share what is going on in our lives with our friends and family that don't see us on a regular basis. Ashley, Worth, Ellie, Emma, and Mack

Nov 23, 2024

September 2024

September is always so busy, but sooo fun! We celebrated Ellie's SIXTEENTH birthday this September 19th. It's completely unbelievable that she is legally able to drive a car. The DAWGS are playing on the weekends, Mack is playing football, and Ellie is in full Nutcracker rehearsal swing. 

To make September extra interesting, God also threw in Hurricane Helene. This was a CAT 4 hurricane with 115mph sustained winds and 133mph wind gusts that wrecked Valdosta. The kids missed 2 weeks of school, our house was without power for 8 days, the clinic I work at was closed for a week, and MANY people lost homes and cars due to downed trees and debris. We had a limb fall on our front porch, but thankfully it didn't cause any damage. Other than losing power, we fared well. 

We did have a generator but with all the cords all over the house that were required to keep the refrigerators and freezer running along with fans and lamps, and the fact that we didn't have hot water, we decided Tifton might be a better option. We headed to Tifton because the Bowers only lost power for a few hours on their side of Tift county. Mama lost power on the other side of Tift county (for a week), so Aunt Telie and Uncle Dale came, loaded her and Daddy up, and took them to Amos's house in Jefferson. 

Once power was restored at SSI, the kids, Worth, and I headed that way to spend the week since there was going to be no work or school. Internet service was spotty all over the eastern side of GA. The hurricane caused massive damage and human casualties all the way up to North Carolina. I never knew in a million years that I would live through 2 hurricanes in Valdosta, CAT 3 (Idilia 2023) and CAT 4 (Helene 2024)! It's crazy that it made it all the way here with that strength. I will never ride another one out though. Helene was a pretty scary situation. I've never heard wind so loud. I kept looking out of the window for the 747 that I was sure was landing in our front yard.The house would creak and groan every time a hard gust hit, and I would just pray for God to keep us safe. With each gust, I would brace for a big tree to hit our house, but thankfully that didn't happen. We were all huddled in the living room together. Worth and I each on a couch, and the kids on air mattresses between us. Somehow, Mack slept through the whole thing and was super excited when he woke up to see what had happened. 

As always in September, we celebrate Daddy's birthday. He turned 76 this year. 

Despite what his brain is going through, he still has that sweet smile on his face, always. 

I was able to help out at the Boosterthon fundraiser at Mack's school. Mack was the only kid that literally ran the ENTIRE time. 

Somehow, this is the only picture I have of a LHS game. We have attended several. The sky was so pretty this night. Mack loves going to the games. 

Homecoming was early September this year. Ellie didn't have a date, but I made sure she had flowers, and I do believe they were beautiful! 

I let Ellie carry my Garland Bag clutch. She looked so beautiful! 


This picture is for those that tell me how tall Ellie is. These are her two best friends. She's definitely not tall. 

Our pretty 10th grader

Ellie and her crew. These are the sweetest, kindest, and smartest girls at LHS. I know I'm biased, but this group of girls are all literally in the top 20 of their class of 795 at Lowndes. 



Mack usually fishes in the neighborhood with his friends. None of which have phones yet like him. One of the boy's older brothers happened to be out there one day though and snapped this picture for Mack. He was so proud of his catch, and we finally had photographic evidence that caught something. 

The Sunday after Homecoming. Ellie had her professional pictures for Nutcracker. We went with the other Clara, Charlotte Holloway, to Pebble Hill Plantation in Thomasville, GA. The girls were utilizing the battery operated fans while taking a break form picture taking in this picture. 

Their sweet photographer wanted a picture with both of them. 

Side angle of a great picture. 

Ellie and I had the best day with Charlotte and her mom. It was long and tiring, but the plantation was absolutely beautiful and Charlotte and her mom and the sweetest, so it made for such a great day. 

I tried to take as many candids as I could for the memories. 

Birthday EVE! Her last night as a 15 year old. This is how we normally see her - rolling in at 9:00pm for dinner, homework, then bedtime. 


Officially 16!!

Emma still gives the best hugs

Once again, our 9:00pm nightly meeting with our new 16 year old. 

A picture with Leonard is all she really wanted for her birthday night. 

I checked her out of school the day after her birthday and took her for her driver's test. I had to ride in the car with her and it was nerve racking! I couldn't say a word, and it was so hard! She did so good though. She didn't need me to say anything! 


She had her friends over for dinner and a movie for her birthday. She wanted lasagna, so I made homemade lasagna, salad, and garlic bread for the menu. 

I had another cake snafu. I picked up the cookie cake from Great American Cookies quickly and didn't notice that they misspelled Birthday until after I got it home. I also realized how terrible it looked (not that they ever do a really good decorating job) once I got it home. Even though the cake's taste was fine, I did make a complaint online and sent in multiple pictures of the cake.  I was completely refunded due to the poor appearance of the cake. I should have done that at Publix this summer with Mama's cake. 

I found these through Target online and they were so cute as little treats out for the girls. 

Good group of kids right here

They had the movie on, but ended up laughing all night and taking a couple of golf cart rides around the neighborhood. 

The professional Nutcracker pics turned out amazing! 

One of my favorites

Our beautiful Ellie

This was taken in a cemetery on the plantation. It was so beautiful and peaceful out there. 

Sweet Clara 



I just can't wait to see her onstage! 


Helene's aftermath

Limb on the front of the house

Worth scaring me to death hanging out of an upstairs window trying to trim the limb to get it off the front porch. 

With no power and very limited internet, the kids were able to help us with clean up all day long.

Our country club took a beating

The power poles all the way down that street were down. 

This is another area in Valdosta. This is what most of Valdosta looked like. 

I stole this from social media- this is First Baptist Church downtown. A huge, vey historic church downtown. It was destroyed. 


August 2024

 August is a busy month with school starting back, Mack's birthday, and all of the fall activities getting into gear. 

Mack turned 11 this August 21st and is maintaining his job of keeping us all very busy. (Physically and mentally) Mack is our social butterfly with friends all over Valdosta and a need to make sure he hangs out with all of them. My house has become a revolving door of boys and I love it. They eat all of the snacks and drink all of the sodas out of the outside fridge, but I love that they enjoy coming here. Mack is such a bright kid and he has endless energy. This energy is contagious and it shows with how easy he can make and keep a friend. We love him so much and look forward to what this kid is going to do in life! 

Mack had another water slide birthday party this year in our backyard. I think fun was had by all of the boys in attendance. I had to talk him out of a sleepover b/c I just couldn't do a sleepover with 20 boys ages 10-11. 

We had good news and bad news this month. The good news was that Ellie found out that she will play the role of Clara in her ballet school's Nutcracker production! We are SO proud of her. She has worked so hard to get to this point. 

The bad news is that unfortunately, Daddy's Alzheimers is progressing. He has entered palliative care with Hospice. We are so grateful Mama is taking such good care of him. We are also thankful that before he heads off to heaven, he will be able to spend his last days here in his earthly home which is exactly where he'd want to be. 


We started August off with fresh haircuts for the new school year. 

I let Ellie get a few highlights for the first time. 

Emma enjoyed taking these pictures of Ellie

I think they turned out great and were just subtle enough to brighten up her beautiful face. 


The weekend before school started we took Ellie and 2 of her friends to SSI since she hadn't had a chance to take friends yet. It was Ellie's friend, Nadia's birthday. Her mom had said that Nadia had not wanted to make a big deal about her birthday this year. We fixed that. Happy 15th birthday to Nadia! 

They are all ballerina's so they took photos of their ballet moves on the water one evening. 




L-R: Nadia, Ellie, Sarah (Emma in background) 



I honestly don't know what's happening here, but I'm guessing this was an impromptu concert by Emma and Mack? 

Ellie scored a 5 on her very first AP exam and her sweet teacher came by to congratulate her and give her the yard sign. This teacher worked her butt off to prepare those kids for this AP (Government) test. 


Emma only let me take one picture at her open house. This is her right as we walked out of the 8th grade hallway. 

Mack whined about this picture, but it's our last open house at Westside, so I HAD to have this picture. 


Hurricane Debby came through Valdosta just a few days before school was supposed to start and backed up our first day along with dropping a large limb in the back yard. 


Debby tried to derail school starting, but after a 2 day delay, we finally had our first day of school! 


This is all of the silliness they could muster at 6:50am on the first day of 5th, 8th, and 10th grade. 


The kids all want me to take them to school on the first day. I successfully got all 3 to 3 different schools on time. Emma was the first drop off

She was way too cool to turn around and wave at us. 



Ellie was next!

She won't acknowledge my picture needs either. 

I walked Mack into school. I think technically the 5th graders aren't supposed to be walked in, but I did it anyway. It's my 10th year and final first day at WES. I was walking him in no matter what. Also, he needed help carrying all the dang supplies in. 

My sweet little boy walking into his last first day of elementary school. 

His homeroom teacher, Mrs. Harris, is the best! 


I was able to get into the classroom and really embarrass Mack and his best friend, Blake. These 2 crack me up. Yes, Blake is Mack's age - he's actually 6 months younger than Mack. 


Ellie drove us in her car for the annual 1st day after school FROYO. 

We all survived and I wasn't a back seat driver. 

Cute Bowers babies and their frozen yogurt. 

Mack and his favorite dinner - steak and rice. He ate the whole thing. 

It was time for Mack's 11th birthday party! The slide fit in the backyard even though it burned out an outside outlet of ours when I turned on the hair dryer. 



Birthday boy! 

Mack and his guests 




Time to eat. They had 2 camps of boys. Some outside. 

And some on the screened porch

The cake




Once the last party guest left, the girls were waiting in the wings to have their turn on the slide. 


And yes, Worth had a go on it as well

Officially August 21st

What happens when you have older sisters 

Birthday boy

Not quite awake Emma getting a hug from the birthday boy

Gag gift from Ellie


Ellie even made an appearance for early morning gift opening. 

Our sweet 11 year old boy. He's growing up so much! 

His birthday gift from us was a shopping spree at Academy for fishing gear. It's his new obsession and he is ALL in with fishing. 

Surcheros for dinner before his birthday football game. 



The first gift that arrived for our Clara

Mack closed his birthday weekend out with 2 touchdowns and a team win. 

Eliie's first costume fitting at the studio



I love the red dress, but the nightgown is so precious. 


Nicole and Todd Branch came to see Mama and Daddy when they heard about Daddy. Nicole always had a special relationship with my parents and they both love her so! Amos and Anna were also in town, so we had a great time seeing one another. 

We've grown up!

Grandma helping Mack open his birthday gifts and Hardy watching

Sweet Daddy

Emma got braces!!

The hygienist made me take this picture

She looks beautiful! 

We headed to SSI for Labor Day weekend. Mack spent plenty of time fishing in the condo ponds. 

Emma and Ellie acting like teenage girls on the beach.